Friends and family cannot speak enough of Jarvis Ammons as a man of high integrity, a strong belief in doing what was right and in taking care of the community.
The former Nacogogdoches city manager died Saturday at home with his family after battling illness for several months. He was 85.
"We were known as the ROMEO's, retired old men eating out, and he was always very cheerful, very upbeat, and he never complained. Jarvis faced life with a great deal of courage," Shofner said.
"My father is one of the dying breed of truly old-fashioned gentlemen," said Ammons' daughter Rose Stanaland. "He was just so respectful to everyone, he was very careful never to say anything off-colored in front of a lady. He was the kind of man who would open a door for the lady, treat a lady with respect and he was just a very old-fashioned gentleman."
Son, Mark Ammons, said his father was one of the most honest people there ever was.
"He was somebody who, it didn't matter to him if it was the president or the school janitor, treated everyone just the same," Mark Ammons said. "He was a good, Christian father, he loved us, and you couldn't ask for more."
Stanaland remembers her father as one who loved his Aggie football, and she loved watching it with him.
"He was an avid Aggie, he was maroon to the core, and we enjoyed watching the Texas A&M football games every season," she said.
After graduating from Texas A&M University in 1949, he served two years in the U.S. Navy during World War II on ships in the Pacific theater.
Ammons was a Paul Harris Fellows recipient, a Rotarian award, he was a member and past-president of the Nacogdoches Booster's Club and was a city manager from 1976 to 1989 when he retired, Stanaland said.
While city manager, he served on the board of the Texas City Managers Association and was a past president of the East Texas City Manager's Association.
In 1988, he was named Citizen of the Year by the Nacogdoches Chamber of Commerce, as well.
Before being a city manager, he worked at Entex for 20 years and was a Nacogdoches ISD business manager for seven years.
Nacogdoches City Mayor Roger Van Horn said Jarvis Ammons taught him a great deal.
"He was my friend for years and he was always kind, he was always interested in my welfare around town as I was active in the community," Van Horn said. "He would always give me good advice and it was never about him; it was always about the people around him or the city and what was good for it.
"I have a high regard for Jarvis Ammons. He was a very good friend and did a lot for our community, Van Horn said. "He set a standard for us, too, that was good for the younger guys to watch and to see. I will miss him."
Being involved in the community was a passion of Ammons and one he passed down to his children.
"The one thing that my dad taught me was that it was important to be involved in the community, but the more important thing was whether he was an officer in the chamber or Rotary, you always remembered who you were and you were kind and honest with everybody. And he really was that way," Mark Ammons said.
Graveside services will be at the Martinsville Cemetery at 10 a.m. today with the Rev. Allen Reed officiating.